Meekness Isn’t Weakness
Everything around us—the world, the culture, the people—tends to applaud power and strength, independence and intelligence, boldness and superiority.
But in the third beatitude, a series of promises Jesus made about God’s Kingdom, Jesus highlighted something different, saying:
"Blessed are the meek, for they will inherit the earth.” Matthew 5:5 NIV
The English word "meek" comes from the Greek word "praeis." It means gentle, humble, or submissive; modest, mild, or unpretentious. In fact, when Paul describes the “fruits of the Spirit” (traits developed in His people by His Spirit), the words "meekness" and "gentleness" are often used interchangeably.
But, let’s be clear: If such descriptions paint a frail and feeble picture in your mind, you can be certain that meekness isn’t weakness.
In today’s world, meekness isn’t exactly trending. We’re told to be bold, assertive, and never back down. Confidence is equated with volume. The idea of meekness can sound like weakness—being timid, passive, or easily walked over.
But biblical meekness is nothing like that. It’s strength under control. It’s the ability to assert power, but choosing restraint for the sake of others.
Meekness is the quality of being gentle, mild-tempered, and patient. Far from being a sign of weakness, true meekness represents strength under control. It is the deliberate choice to restrain one's power and temper to benefit others rather than reacting with anger, arrogance, or a desire for revenge
Meekness is strength under control. It's power submitted to God’s authority.
There are three key characteristics of meekness.
- Self-Restraint: The ability to endure hardships, offenses, and injuries without retaliation or bitterness.
- Humility: A willingness to put oneself in second place and submit to higher causes without boasting.
- Empowerment: Using one's strength and influence to lift, serve, and protect others rather than dominating them.
While meekness and humility are often used interchangeably, they are slightly different. Humility is a state of being that defines your attitude toward yourself (knowing your own limitations and keeping a modest opinion of your abilities). Meekness is an active behavior that defines your treatment toward others (how you interact with people and respond to provocation).
A powerful example of meekness is found in the film 42, the story of baseball legend Jackie Robinson. When Brooklyn Dodgers owner Branch Rickey tells Robinson that he doesn’t want a player who fights back, Robinson replies, “You want a player who doesn’t have the guts to fight back?” Rickey responds, “No, I want a player who’s got the guts not to fight back.” Robinson endured verbal abuse, threats, and discrimination without retaliating—not because he was weak, but because his strength was channeled through meekness. He chose a higher road for the sake of a greater cause. That’s what meekness looks like.
Now, if “meek” isn’t a word that you’d use to currently describe yourself, that’s okay. Jesus wasn’t speaking to those who had it all together—and He isn’t expecting a perfect version of us, either. Instead, He’s extending a blessing on who His people were (and are) becoming.
God is continually developing these beatitude traits inside of His followers. He's refining, sanctifying, and transforming us to be more and more like Him.
In Scripture, Jesus Himself is called “meek.” But as you probably know, He was far from passive, apathetic, or a pushover. Instead of relying on His own power—like summoning legions of angels to avoid hanging on that cross—He leaned into God’s strength and restrained His limitless power.
Jesus’ upside-down kingdom will be packed with those who harness their strength for God’s glory and who humble themselves at His feet.
Meekness isn’t about being soft—it’s about being strong enough to stay soft when the world pushes you to harden. Colossians 3 doesn’t just suggest meekness—it commands it as part of our identity in Christ. And when we wear meekness, we look more like Jesus.